We get this question constantly, and there genuinely isn't a universally correct answer — it depends on family tradition, guest overlap, and logistics.
Some couples run both ceremonies in the same week to save on travel costs for out-of-town guests. Others deliberately space them months apart to give each celebration its own identity.
One practical factor: if your traditional wedding involves significant family-led planning, running it first can sometimes reduce pressure on your white wedding timeline, since major family logistics are already resolved.
Whichever order you choose, keep your vendors informed early — some, especially photographers, will offer a package discount for booking both events together.